If your children suddenly becomes more important to you than your husband, then you need prayers.

1. The wife that wins all arguments with her
husband is not wise. The home is not a law
court.
2. The wife that uses sex as a weapon in the
home - placing embargo, going to bed in jeans
shorts and trousers -lacks wisdom.
3. The wife that uses the modern trends and
laws of "women's rights" to insult or ridicule
her husband simply makes a fool of herself.
4. A woman that makes her home devoid of
peace through bickering, nagging and quarrels
needs help. A man should be eager to run
away from office to be at home, for that
should be the safest and closest place on
earth for him.
5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not
mean competition, It simply means
partnership. Taking advantage of such equality
to turn around and become the defector head
of the home and oppress the man is
tantamount to playing with fire. If
you destroy your home, soon you will be the
boss of an empty home.
6. A wise wife makes the man feel so good
that he assumes that he is the head. Once he
gets that feeling, the woman gently wields
her power and the head actually turns to
wherever the neck wants without a protest.
7. A wife that does not pull herself away from
friends' influence and advice or even from the
control of her mother and father will have
herself to blame.
8. When a man is looking for a wife, he
bypasses women of different shapes and sizes
to choose a wife But soon after
childbirth, many women hide under the
excuse of childbirth to let go of themselves.
Many stop bothering about their looks, shape,
dressing, etc. Within 5 years of
marriage, people start wondering if the wife is
the man's aunt, even though she is 7 years
younger. Her defence is that if he truly loves
her, he should love her the way she is but
when looking for a wife, he saw people like the
present YOU and ignored them and settled for
the former YOU. Today, you go to bed
smelling of onions.... You go to bed wearing
grandmothers' clothes. Why are you playing
with your marriage? Love is not about looks -
we know But looks enhances love and
marriage There is a difference between
someone disfiguring herself and the person
being disfigured by an accident.
Please don't be complacent. As hard as it may
be, work on looking like you were when he
first saw you and began the chase.
9. If every night you are tired, sleepy, sore,
down with headache or fever, "not in the
mood," you are a joker, a serious comedian!
10. If your children suddenly become more
important to you than your husband, you need
prayers.
11. If you assume that as the woman, only you
need to be pampered and fussed over while
the man is a stone that has no
emotions, you need to be pitied.
12. A woman that has the mind of a wife does
not excite her husband. Wives are usually
complacent and presumptuous. A
wife must strive to have the mind of a
girlfriend, A girlfriend is always nicer, sweeter,
more loving and always thinking of ways to
wow her sweetheart; a girlfriend
does not try to win all arguments, does not
call the man a "useless man", is not careless
about her looks or dressing, always smiles
and laughs with the man, sends the man
sweet messages and calls, etc. Are you your
husband's girlfriend in word and in deed?