I didn't snatch anybody's husband- Stella Damasus.

I’ll confess that I’ve been among the people telling
tales about how Stella Damasus skillfully snatched a
fellow actress, Doris Simeon‘s ex husband whose
name is Daniel Ademonikan.
Stella told Golden Icons TV that she didn’t steal
anyone’s husband.
In her words: –
“Let me put it this way. Let me help you hit the nail
on the head. One of the comments I have seen
consistently, over and over again, is ‘Stella snatches
somebody’s husband’, ‘Stella the husband snatcher’,
which is what has been going on. And I had sworn
that I would never talk about it, or even listen or stress
myself about this thing but I have decided to do this
now, so that I end this once and for all.
First of all, let me paint a picture for you and you let
me know what makes sense to you. When I looked up
the word snatch or steal,let’s go to the dictionary. It
means, forcefully taking something away from its
original position. Forcefully. From its original position
to another position. Something that does not belong to
you. That’s what I gathered from the word snatch or
steal.
So I looked at me, Stella, and I wondered to myself,
how is it possible to go to somebody’s home, and
take a man, and take his son, away from his home
and say follow me. You are a man, and according to
their story, he is happily married inside his home. With
his family complete and I walk into that home, to
forcefully take a man, abled bodied man, and a kid,
away from somebody’s hand and you are there looking
at me. How does that work?
Did they accuse me of using voodoo? Yes or no?
They said no. Okay, did I put a gun on anybody’s
head and remove somebody from somewhere? They
said no. So logically, if people actually sit down and
think about it intelligently, how do you snatch
somebody from somebody and the person is there
looking at you?
So when you see a man who has settled ties with a
woman and decides to move on with his life and you
feel that there is something in this man that you like
and he likes you. I am not a kid. I am 36 years old. I
am not about to start hiding myself. I was waiting for
somebody to actually ask me this question, because
all I have heard for the past two, three years are
rumours. They said, blogs said, this said. Nobody has
been bold enough to confront me and ask me. So I
say, if I steal something from somebody, and the
person is really the owner of the thing, you come and
ask me, ‘you took something from me, give me back’
But nobody was able to that. And I am like, if I meet
an able bodied man that has left and moved on. That
is not even in the same house with whoever and is not
doing anything with whoever, and both parties have
decided this thing is not going anywhere, and they
have gone their separate ways, why is it that it easier
for the world to blame the woman that the man has
decided to end up with?
Why is it that it is always that woman that scattered
that home? The two people that did things that
nobody was there, nobody said something must have
happened between this two people but it is always
somebody else that is the problem. And I always say, I
do not tolerate blaming anybody for your own
problems. I have had problems.
After my late husband’s death, I got married again and
the marriage didn’t work. After eight (8) months, it
crashed. People didn’t hear much about it, why? We
were both mature to understand that we came
together, we knew that the thing was not working,
instead of us to become enemies we will remain
friends, let’s just let it go quietly. And we let it go
quietly. I didn’t blame anybody else for doing it, he
didn’t blame anybody else for doing it. So I am
wondering, two people come together they go their
separate ways, this one meets somebody, all of a
sudden, it is that somebody that is the problem. Did
anybody ever ask, what went wrong? Why would a
man pick up his son and walk away from his
marriage?
Was there anytime another woman was the problem
until the man moved on with another woman? Nobody
brought up Stella’s name, then all of a sudden, ‘oh
he’s moved on with somebody else (snaps fingers), it
must be her’. How? I am still waiting for somebody to
come with proof to say ‘oh when they were still in
marriage, when they were still in a house, you came
and did this.’ So the reason why I don’t like talking
about it is that, there are some things I would say to
you and you would look at me like ‘oh wow’ but I
don’t want to be derogatory, I don’t want to tow the
line that other people have towed by talking bad about
people.
I would never do that but the stories started coming.
At first I ignored it, I just kept quiet, and then it was
all over the place, Google, blogs, and I am like, one
day, one day, I would tell my story. There’s a reason
why I am respecting certain people, respecting certain
legal issues that are going on. So there might be some
things I may not hammer on, but whenever you hear
this person snatched this person’s, you will ask the
person, the person that they said was the original
owner, what was the person doing when they were
snatching the person from him or her? I don’t get it.
Do you understand?
So I look at it, I am not ugly, I am not dumb. Of all
the men in the world, I will now go and look for
somebody else’s own and say this is the one I want. If
he didn’t come out of it and say I want to be with you
and you want to be with me, how? Why would I come
and grab? Am I that bad looking? Am I that old?